He told me that our first rendezvous brought him a glint of happiness. Unfortunately, I can't even recall! I can only remember the plethora of his patience.The reminiscence of how he patiently solicited my favor makes me feel so important, so loved. I can't remember how many times I've rejected him but despite the countless brush offs, he remained constantly impulsive and maintained his pursuit. This gentleman didn't keep me privy to his emotional nuances. Yes, I've received tons of letter from him but only for the waste bin to read their contents and intentions. He never stopped until I could feel his love in his missives. The experience of his courtship was something that is truly elusive.
What a destiny! Love reigns supreme.
It was sometime in March or April 1998 (during Kareen's graduation dinner) when I finally realized how charming he is. I could perfectly remember how his white Lee t-shirt, straight cut jeans and his Martens hi-cut brown boots flattered his slim athletic built. Undeniably attractive! He also wore delicately sweet and refreshing scented perfume that blended well with the beer aroma. Seductive, I must admit!
I pretended I didn't notice him but his bad boy aura was just seemingly impossible to resist. Again, remembering his patience inflated my pride. I was quite complacent not knowing that his patience will come to an end. He came close to quitting his courtship. Nevertheless, he still attempted to ask me for the last time to approve his wooing via telephone. It was indeed an ultimatum! At first, I was quite hesitant as it was so informal and I felt not respected but I was reminded of the hardships he had patiently endured for the past eight years. Suddenly, I found myself tilting to the proximity of that ultimatum...
So, yes! This happened a week after he visited the church of St. Jude. He simply prayed for a partner and be blessed with an ideal relationship. He didn't mention me in his prayer but having me a week after was far from what he expected. He was so thankful for the prayer granted through the intercession of Saint Jude. Since then, the latter became his favorite saint.
Unlike other first dates ours was just a casual chit-chat at the corner of Sancho Panza and F. Cayco St. in Sampaloc, Manila...then it led to a second date followed by a serious relationship and eventually marriage.
I found a very loving, transparent, spontaneous not flirty man. I felt the sense of profound contentment in his embrace. He is such a wonderful partner, a great father to our precious conjugal possession, our children. He is the truest friend I've ever had in all these years. He is the man I would want to marry again and again!
Having photography session with our eldest Dayne at Queen Elizabeth Park. Is there anything more joyful than Dayne's sweet smile?
Ate Dayne loves our adorable little miracle.
DIY personalized napkin ring
I'm always proud to be a daughter of a teacher in Home Economics. Thank you Mama, I can proudly say I'm now a good cook. Thank you also for eliciting the creativity in us without having to spend a lot of money. I love you so much!
Our simple anniversary dinner
Dayne's heart shaped napkin ring
Simple anniversary menu for the Sadiwas -Beef with Broccoli, Sweet and Sour Salmon, Mixed fruits, Halo-halo ice cream by Selecta and Mango cheesecake
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| Candle holders from Ikea, Dollarama and Thrift Store |
Noong nakarang buwan sinabi ng asawa ko sa akin na kami'y kakain sa labas sa aming anibersaryo. Tinanong din niya ako kung anong regalo ang gusto ko. Sinabi ko sa kanya na di ko kelangan ng regalo bagkus bilhan na lang niya ako ng candle holders at sa bahay na lang kami mag hahapunan.
Mixed fruit with fresh mint leaves
Ate Dayne enjoying her meal.
Pinoy flavored ice cream is something you'll love to ravage until there's nothing left but an empty clean container.
I love this romantic mood!
Happy 13th anniversary 'By! I can't imagine life without you. I love you.
How wonderful it is to be in God's family! We are all indeed children of God! - Didache, April 29, 2012
